How to Make Money as a Financial Dominatrix

I’ve been noticing a lot of websites and online classes have been popping up lately promising to teach aspiring young women the “art” of financial domination and how to make money. I personally think those tutorials are a scam and I can sum it up for you in a simple blog post.

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My credentials: I’ve been a financial dominatrix for over ten years. A have a few well-paying subs who currently pay thousands per month. Just yesterday I drained a guy (slave X) out of $30,000 in one day. I will explain how below.

Definition of financial domination: when a submissive pays a dominant money for the sheer pleasure of paying her in it of itself. i.e. no direct transaction is assumed.

The problem: as you could imagine, there’s a lot of supply for very little demand. Most people like easy money. Very few get off on giving their hard-earned dollars away.

So how does it work?

Simply put: financial dommes don’t earn money through financial domination alone.

I don’t mean they have a vanilla job (although some do, I don’t). What I mean is, they provide services to fetishists through clips, cam shows, phone lines, and selling worn items. This is not financial domination. These are business transactions. It’s work.

(Note: some people debate whether any of this is “real work.” That’s fine. But in my opinion, whenever you’re trying to earn money by spending your time doing something when you’d rather be vacationing, reading a book or hanging out with friends: that’s work.)

So, where does the financial domination come in? Let me show you a graph.

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The Y axis represents money earned. The X axis represents time spent with a potential sub.

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The bottom right hand side of the graph is the “time waster” zone. These are guys who suck up your time and energy through email, messenger or what have you and give you very little or no money.

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The upper left hand side, is the financial domination or “white whale” zone. A white while is a sub who spends a lot of money and requires very little time on your part to do so. For instance, the slave X.

Slave X literally asked for nothing in return for the money he sent me. Although I interacted with him somewhat to keep the money flowing. It was incredibly easy. I simply chatted with him over kik and threw him a few pictures here and there as a reward. It’s didn’t hinder my day what so ever. I was able to eat breakfast, work out, go shopping, and shoot eight videos, all while draining him of his money.

Yes, that is fucking rad.

But it’s also fucking rare.

Make no mistake about it: if, for the past ten years, I only had the money I earned through financial domination, I’d be living in poverty.

That is why, the most important part of the graph is this line:

 

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This is the customer line. The free market line. This is where time spent and money earned is fair and equitable. This is where you earn money for clips, webcam, phone lines and worn goods. This is what you should be putting your time and effort into.

The mistake most new financial dommes make is this:

They hunt for white whales.

They make a twitter account, throwing up a few pictures of their feet and saying “fuck you pay me.” Then, when the subs start flocking to them, they spend all their time interacting with them, like a slot machine in desperate search for that big pay out. Or they try to gain the attention of subs who have been known to pay other dommes.

If you hunt for white whales, you will find yourself in the time waster zone.

Time is a precious resource, don’t spend it like this.

Do not interact with a sub for more than five or ten minutes if he’s not paying you.

Do not solicit subs on social media who are known payers.

Spend your time and energy on the customer line.

This is how you get the occasional white whale, when you produce and offer services. White whales get inspired to pay dommes when they see a certain video, experience a great cam show or phone conversation, or they see a specific image on social media. Slave X started paying me when he stumbled across my clip store. If that didn’t exist, he would have gone elsewhere.

Another example: a couple years ago I wrote about selling my shit twice to someone for $8k. It was discussed at great lengths during my Joe Rogan interview. Afterward, I received an influx of emails from baby dommes (and delusional men) asking me how they could sell their shit online. As though shit is a scarce resource and there’s a lucrative untapped market that’s so plentiful Im just dying to share it with everyone.

There isn’t. I don’t sell my shit for $4k all the time. I sold it twice in a ten year period.

Although the shit buyer wanted something in exchange for his money, I’d still consider him a “white whale” because he over paid by an extraordinary amount. He could have easily bought shit from a cute, broke 19 year old for $30. The point is, he didn’t want cheap shit. He wanted my shit. He’d been watching my clips for years and came to the conclusion my shit was special and worth $8k. It was an indirect result of the decade worth of work I’d been doing. Not because shit is worth $8k.

Unfortunately, you never know what is going to inspire a white whale to come to you. If there’s a formula or science to it, I certainly haven’t discovered it. That’s why it’s important to think of the customer line as a net. The more you produce, the more services you provide, the bigger the net and the more likely you are to catch a white whale.

Best of all: the net is profitable in it of itself. You will earn far more money from your net then the occasional white whale you catch with it.

Remember: be realistic. They’re called white whales for a reason. They’re rare. They pop up once in a great while, then they often disappear for long increments of time. Take advantage of them when you see them, but don’t depend on them. Don’t assume they’ll be a regular paying sub. I’ve known Slave X for a while now. I’ve gone years without hearing from him. Yesterday he told me he wanted to adopt my $1,500 mortgage bill and be a devoted slave, I’m not holding my breath on that promise. I’m going back to work.


Finally, a last bit of advice: I know it’s hard when you’re first starting out. It’s a strange world. What the hell are all these fetishes? What do you say to guys? How do you “dominate them?”

I get it. I was there. The best way to learn how to work these guys is by talking to them. So, start with phone lines. Guys love to tell women of no consequence their sexual fantasies. You can do that by talking to them on messenger or email, but with phone lines you can earn money while learning.

This is how I learned, you can too. It’s a tool I use to this day. I have produced over 1500 clips. I shoot four new ones a week. As you can imagine, it gets hard to come up with a fresh spin on ideas. Whenever I’m feeling stuck, I do cam and phone and formulate new ideas from the guys I get paid to talk to. That’s the beauty of this business: all the revenue streams feed off of each other. It’s like an evolving ecosystem of perversion.

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Right now, IWC is offering an 80% commission rate for their new phone platform they’re launching if you sign up in March. Get on it. This is the highest rate in the industry and IWC is a fantastic company. Join here.

Good luck, ladies.

 

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17 Responses to How to Make Money as a Financial Dominatrix

  1. ingloriousbad says:

    As a longtime Lynchaholic and a Femdom clip buying sub and someone who’s seen what’s been happening with Femdom twitter recently….this is probably one of the most insightful and brilliant pieces of writing about the practicality of the scene that I’ve ever come across. Ceara Lynch is one of a great Pantheon of Goddesses on this Scene for the insight displayed here.

  2. vergo says:

    “He’d been watching my clips for years and came to the conclusion my shit was special and worth $8k”.

    This made me wonder if you still get amused when you realize what you’re writing while writing a sentence like that or if it has become normal by now…

  3. Jim says:

    I don’t expect an answer, but I do have a few questions so I figured why not just ask. I could also ask these same questions to Princess Fierce, Mistress B, or Spoiled Ashely but you posted the blog so…

    1. Who is this white whale “Slave X” and what has driven him to spend so much in such a short amount of time? Is he just some rich guy and this is pocket change to him? Or is he out to ruin his own life financially? Or maybe something in between, like he’s a normal guy who just inherited a bunch of money and is looking to blow it? No judgements in any case, just genuinely curious.

    2. Are you worried at all about him charging back? I know you said he’s a repeat customer, but you also said he doesn’t come around that often so maybe he will have some regrets soon…

    Thanks,
    Jim

    • cearalynch says:

      I referred to him as Slave X to respect his privacy. I’m not going to delve into his personal life or motives.

      I’ve interacted with him off and on for many years. He’s engaged in a lot of spending binges with no history of chargebacks.

  4. pp says:

    Excellent, clear, and to the point. The work line is my takeaway from this. Thanks, pp

  5. John Smith says:

    Without even addressing the piss-poor quality of their work, these women all talk to each other, and there is NO PRIVACY in sex work. The name and shame, sometimes inaccurately, and spread the lies told by others they think are “sisters” or peers, when one “whale” will pit them against each other. Think they declare all the income from their “gifts?” The IRS is going to drop the hammer on the wishlists at some point, that’s for sure.

    As for their “porn,” it’s pathetic: these women are not Playboy material, most don’t ever perform nude (like REAL adult stars used to), and the real ones from the past never insulted their customers or even interacted over social media. What you’re seeing now is a fraction of what made porn what it used to be and no longer is.

    Think her parents are proud of her? Proud people don’t hide their names, and if they feel they “have” to, then they’re in a business that speaks for itself.

    I bought some of these videos because they advertised “hypnosis,” but they all just copy each other’s bad techniques (the lone exception is Mina Thorne, who actually trained as a hypnotist and has a degree in psychology). Even the trained ones don’t always have good technique, but you’d think someone asking for a fraction of a month’s cable for a single video would bother to perform better, or at least take input from those who know what they’re doing. Kismet Video set a high bar with Ashley but even they became repetitive. At least Joe took his work seriously.

    The men who pay for this pathetic work are ruining it for the men with standards. I know why these women do what they do, but really, we can live forever without sex or their crappy videos. How long can they get by without cash? If men everywhere just starved them for even a WEEK the entire market would crash.

    Also since they all judge men based on how we treat EVERY “sex worker” (PG-13 that is, not “sex”), then fair is fair: we should hold ALL accountable for the actions of any ONE. Most of all, however, you can forget any notion of privacy, and if you don’t think you’ll be blackmailed down the road, well you’re lucky if you aren’t. I was harassed and defamed so badly by many of these clipwhores (not this one) that I have to file suit and get a lawyer. Of course, they believe all the crap they read online until it’s too late not realizing that lawyers are setting them up to be sued because they know they will rush in to play hero and collect tens of thousands in fees.

    These women don’t understand that humans are evolving the way wolves did into dogs. You can have 100 “wolves” as your subs but even ONE “dog” has more IQ than the 100 wolves combinwed, which is why we have 75 million dogs and only 30 wolves. The dogs are not tougher than the wolves, but smarter. These women who chase “wolf” money don’t realize what they’re missing out on because the books haven’t caught up to reality. They’re literally fighting yesterday’s war.

    I have WAY too much to accomplish in this life to sweat the opinion of some stupid cam bitch who rips off the public she laughs at while doing so. The wives of truly rich men, like those on Wall Street, have class, and laugh at the cam skanks. Those men also don’t marry women who have been on the open market, unless they are just very flawed, desperate rich men. The women know this, and that’s part of why they hate “men.”

    Finally, they say they’d NEVER date a customer? Great. Spend NO money and you have an eq1ual or better chance with them. Of course, if men don’t boycott them collectively, the market won’t crash and all men will pay too much (or just stop paying like I did years ago). If you tolerate a woman with clothing over 60 percent of her body, not realizing what an INSULT that is to you and to porn in general, they have no incentive to up the ante.

    This woman is like someone who caught the internet bubble and thinks they know how to invest. The more women she educates to compete against her, the more the pie will be divided up. Either way, she’ll age like milk, like all women do, no decent man will ever love her, and men should treat ugly, old, and fat women the way women in their prime treat men.

    Wonder if her camskank friends realize that when they threatened me they gave a level of PROBABLE CAUSE to law enforcement that basically turns their lives, and the lives of their customers, into an open book. If they get audited, so will anyone sending them large amounts of cash, gifts, etc. Just a matter of time at this point.

    It’s sad they don’t value brains the way they do money, since a smart man can multiply their money beyond belief, but that’s what makes them stupid and rich. Finally, do you think the slugs they date really want them to become more successful to the point where they’ll dump the slug?

    Wise up, skank.

    • cearalynch says:

      You alright?

      • Danny says:

        I think I am going to try to reply. I think a lot of guys who use BDSM are not dating. This is an outlet.

        The women who offer these services are actually quite open about what they do because they are going after certain types of clients.

        That brings me to the matter of consent. A lot of guys don’t know what they are doing. They have these unconscious drives, and get arouaed m aroused by the descriptions of services.

        I do m. I feel the woman is going to know whether the customer is acting in his best interests or not. Some are ethical. Some are not.
        Hearing your findom advice about taking advantage of the occasional white whale, I disagreed mm. Sorry old phone. Me. Ms. Lynch, I would probably consider you to be a predator. Someone who ‘smells the money.’ As my Domme said. She has actually checked four times when she thought I was spending too much.

        I did financial once with domm someone who respect ed income limits. She still received a pretty good sum from me. I loved it because it was pure service without the kink. She herself as said that she does not understand the desire to financially ruin people’s.

        So I am curious Ms. Lynch. In your off hours, away from work. Do you give back in any way? Charity, volunteer ing, activism?

        It is really really an accomplishment to attain a six-figure income online, but there are many different roads to get there. For example every one raves about Maria at Brainoickings (letter after o).

        Well LOL, since this is your blog , I’ll stop and say good night.

  6. John Smith says:

    Oh, this is moderated. No biggie, can post it somewhere else.

  7. Valves Tech says:

    I really enjoyed reading this blog post which is not always the case.

    Its clever precise and covers the issue very well without being self serving.

    I am definitely in the customer class and not ever likely to be a whale and hopefully never a time waster either though that’s for others to comment on, and I drop in and out of interacting with the Dommes I favour and at the moment I am just starting to spend money with Ceara (mainly on Clips) after a hiatus of about 6 – 9 months, One thing that I find happens and this may be specific to me as I reconnect I tend to start off slowly and then go crazier and crazier and buy more and more clips per day and read more and more tweets to devour all things Ceara till one day I just stop for a period of time but I always find my way back and I guess this is the whole point of the business plan is to have many customers and take the cream off the top when a whale appears

    I think the point about gaining customers from the work who have put in previously via a clip or a picture that they stumble across is extremely valid and its how I came across Ceara about 7 – 8 years ago and would not have spent a cent on her without this and this is true for the other 3 or so Dommes I spend money with on a semi regular basis.

    Thank You for the post and the enjoyment you have given me over the years

    Regards

  8. james says:

    Cool, I just discovered this site highlights text in pink! Is that a feature you implemented?

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  10. Sam says:

    That John Smith dude is too angry to be taken seriously. That said, I will echo one of his comments. Just about every time I attempted to break off contact with a femdom/findom with whom I had been interacting frequently, there was the threat of blackmail. Th e blackmails threats came from high profile dommes including one who was regularly featured on the old Domme Dose site. In one case, with a certain Canadian Domme who shall remain nameless, there was literally non-consensual blackmail and I went to a lawyer. I always though that was sad and disgusting and the fact that it was the rule and not the exception made me think less of the ladies in this business. Important note: I never had the privilege to interact with Princess Ceara so this post in no way impunes her reputation.

  11. monique says:

    This is awesome…. I just had someone contact me about Findom, and I sent them to your site… and you just happened the post this! hahah

    xoxo
    Monique- your long lost buddy

  12. shuai wang says:

    Your majesty, if your shoes and my parents fall into the river at the same time, I must first save your shoesIt
    is strongly recommended that you come to China, China is no exaggeration to say that there are 10 men in the M and there are 2 do not understand this.
    China is the only country that has not been conquered. Cheap dogs believe you will conquer China with your dung

  13. pauly says:

    Blah blah white whale blah blah!I just want to kiss and smell your beautiful stinky stockinged feet!

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