I want to give a shout out to my man Dan Savage! <3 I've been going on a binge lately reading his sex advice columns and I swear to god every ounce of advice he gives makes me love him even more. In a very real way, he was the spark that ignited the massive unstoppable bonfire known as CEARA LYNCH. At 14 years old I began reading his column, which is more often than not about fairly out-there fetishes and non-vanilla type sex. I became obsessed with random, unheard of kinks and basically everything snowballed from there. Of course very few, if any, of these fetishes turn me on personally, I've always just found them fascinating and of course being the bombshell that I am I knew there was some serious money making potential in it. I learned very quickly as a teenage girl that this mentality makes no sense to boys whatsoever. Having an interest in fetishes or talking about sex without actually being aroused and wanting to actually get it on is very foreign to the male brain. Which of course leads me to blog like this. Anyway, I digress. I love you, Dan Savage. Oh to be a 30 something gay man and actually have a chance with you.

Here are some D/s relevant excerpts: