I’ve been noticing a lot of websites and online classes have been popping up lately promising to teach aspiring young women the “art” of financial domination and how to make money. I personally think those tutorials are a scam and I can sum it up for you in a simple blog post.
My credentials: I’ve been a financial dominatrix for over ten years. A have a few well-paying subs who currently pay thousands per month. Just yesterday I drained a guy (slave X) out of $30,000 in one day. I will explain how below.
Definition of financial domination: when a submissive pays a dominant money for the sheer pleasure of paying her in it of itself. i.e. no direct transaction is assumed.
The problem: as you could imagine, there’s a lot of supply for very little demand. Most people like easy money. Very few get off on giving their hard-earned dollars away.
So how does it work?
Simply put: financial dommes don’t earn money through financial domination alone.
I don’t mean they have a vanilla job (although some do, I don’t). What I mean is, they provide services to fetishists through clips, cam shows, phone lines, and selling worn items. This is not financial domination. These are business transactions. It’s work.
(Note: some people debate whether any of this is “real work.” That’s fine. But in my opinion, whenever you’re trying to earn money by spending your time doing something when you’d rather be vacationing, reading a book or hanging out with friends: that’s work.)
So, where does the financial domination come in? Let me show you a graph.
The Y axis represents money earned. The X axis represents time spent with a potential sub.
The bottom right hand side of the graph is the “time waster” zone. These are guys who suck up your time and energy through email, messenger or what have you and give you very little or no money.
The upper left hand side, is the financial domination or “white whale” zone. A white while is a sub who spends a lot of money and requires very little time on your part to do so. For instance, the slave X.
Slave X literally asked for nothing in return for the money he sent me. Although I interacted with him somewhat to keep the money flowing. It was incredibly easy. I simply chatted with him over kik and threw him a few pictures here and there as a reward. It’s didn’t hinder my day what so ever. I was able to eat breakfast, work out, go shopping, and shoot eight videos, all while draining him of his money.
Yes, that is fucking rad.
But it’s also fucking rare.
Make no mistake about it: if, for the past ten years, I only had the money I earned through financial domination, I’d be living in poverty.
That is why, the most important part of the graph is this line:
This is the customer line. The free market line. This is where time spent and money earned is fair and equitable. This is where you earn money for clips, webcam, phone lines and worn goods. This is what you should be putting your time and effort into.
The mistake most new financial dommes make is this:
They hunt for white whales.
They make a twitter account, throwing up a few pictures of their feet and saying “fuck you pay me.” Then, when the subs start flocking to them, they spend all their time interacting with them, like a slot machine in desperate search for that big pay out. Or they try to gain the attention of subs who have been known to pay other dommes.
If you hunt for white whales, you will find yourself in the time waster zone.
Time is a precious resource, don’t spend it like this.
Do not interact with a sub for more than five or ten minutes if he’s not paying you.
Do not solicit subs on social media who are known payers.
Spend your time and energy on the customer line.
This is how you get the occasional white whale, when you produce and offer services. White whales get inspired to pay dommes when they see a certain video, experience a great cam show or phone conversation, or they see a specific image on social media. Slave X started paying me when he stumbled across my clip store. If that didn’t exist, he would have gone elsewhere.
Another example: a couple years ago I wrote about selling my shit twice to someone for $8k. It was discussed at great lengths during my Joe Rogan interview. Afterward, I received an influx of emails from baby dommes (and delusional men) asking me how they could sell their shit online. As though shit is a scarce resource and there’s a lucrative untapped market that’s so plentiful Im just dying to share it with everyone.
There isn’t. I don’t sell my shit for $4k all the time. I sold it twice in a ten year period.
Although the shit buyer wanted something in exchange for his money, I’d still consider him a “white whale” because he over paid by an extraordinary amount. He could have easily bought shit from a cute, broke 19 year old for $30. The point is, he didn’t want cheap shit. He wanted my shit. He’d been watching my clips for years and came to the conclusion my shit was special and worth $8k. It was an indirect result of the decade worth of work I’d been doing. Not because shit is worth $8k.
Unfortunately, you never know what is going to inspire a white whale to come to you. If there’s a formula or science to it, I certainly haven’t discovered it. That’s why it’s important to think of the customer line as a net. The more you produce, the more services you provide, the bigger the net and the more likely you are to catch a white whale.
Best of all: the net is profitable in it of itself. You will earn far more money from your net then the occasional white whale you catch with it.
Remember: be realistic. They’re called white whales for a reason. They’re rare. They pop up once in a great while, then they often disappear for long increments of time. Take advantage of them when you see them, but don’t depend on them. Don’t assume they’ll be a regular paying sub. I’ve known Slave X for a while now. I’ve gone years without hearing from him. Yesterday he told me he wanted to adopt my $1,500 mortgage bill and be a devoted slave, I’m not holding my breath on that promise. I’m going back to work.
Finally, a last bit of advice: I know it’s hard when you’re first starting out. It’s a strange world. What the hell are all these fetishes? What do you say to guys? How do you “dominate them?”
I get it. I was there. The best way to learn how to work these guys is by talking to them. So, start with phone lines. Guys love to tell women of no consequence their sexual fantasies. You can do that by talking to them on messenger or email, but with phone lines you can earn money while learning.
This is how I learned, you can too. It’s a tool I use to this day. I have produced over 1500 clips. I shoot four new ones a week. As you can imagine, it gets hard to come up with a fresh spin on ideas. Whenever I’m feeling stuck, I do cam and phone and formulate new ideas from the guys I get paid to talk to. That’s the beauty of this business: all the revenue streams feed off of each other. It’s like an evolving ecosystem of perversion.
Right now, IWC is offering an 80% commission rate for their new phone platform they’re launching if you sign up in March. Get on it. This is the highest rate in the industry and IWC is a fantastic company. Join here.
Good luck, ladies.
As a longtime Lynchaholic and a Femdom clip buying sub and someone who’s seen what’s been happening with Femdom twitter recently….this is probably one of the most insightful and brilliant pieces of writing about the practicality of the scene that I’ve ever come across. Ceara Lynch is one of a great Pantheon of Goddesses on this Scene for the insight displayed here.
“He’d been watching my clips for years and came to the conclusion my shit was special and worth $8k”.
This made me wonder if you still get amused when you realize what you’re writing while writing a sentence like that or if it has become normal by now…
I don’t expect an answer, but I do have a few questions so I figured why not just ask. I could also ask these same questions to Princess Fierce, Mistress B, or Spoiled Ashely but you posted the blog so…
1. Who is this white whale “Slave X” and what has driven him to spend so much in such a short amount of time? Is he just some rich guy and this is pocket change to him? Or is he out to ruin his own life financially? Or maybe something in between, like he’s a normal guy who just inherited a bunch of money and is looking to blow it? No judgements in any case, just genuinely curious.
2. Are you worried at all about him charging back? I know you said he’s a repeat customer, but you also said he doesn’t come around that often so maybe he will have some regrets soon…
Thanks,
Jim
I referred to him as Slave X to respect his privacy. I’m not going to delve into his personal life or motives.
I’ve interacted with him off and on for many years. He’s engaged in a lot of spending binges with no history of chargebacks.
Excellent, clear, and to the point. The work line is my takeaway from this. Thanks, pp
Without even addressing the piss-poor quality of their work, these women all talk to each other, and there is NO PRIVACY in sex work. The name and shame, sometimes inaccurately, and spread the lies told by others they think are “sisters” or peers, when one “whale” will pit them against each other. Think they declare all the income from their “gifts?” The IRS is going to drop the hammer on the wishlists at some point, that’s for sure.
As for their “porn,” it’s pathetic: these women are not Playboy material, most don’t ever perform nude (like REAL adult stars used to), and the real ones from the past never insulted their customers or even interacted over social media. What you’re seeing now is a fraction of what made porn what it used to be and no longer is.
Think her parents are proud of her? Proud people don’t hide their names, and if they feel they “have” to, then they’re in a business that speaks for itself.
I bought some of these videos because they advertised “hypnosis,” but they all just copy each other’s bad techniques (the lone exception is Mina Thorne, who actually trained as a hypnotist and has a degree in psychology). Even the trained ones don’t always have good technique, but you’d think someone asking for a fraction of a month’s cable for a single video would bother to perform better, or at least take input from those who know what they’re doing. Kismet Video set a high bar with Ashley but even they became repetitive. At least Joe took his work seriously.
The men who pay for this pathetic work are ruining it for the men with standards. I know why these women do what they do, but really, we can live forever without sex or their crappy videos. How long can they get by without cash? If men everywhere just starved them for even a WEEK the entire market would crash.
Also since they all judge men based on how we treat EVERY “sex worker” (PG-13 that is, not “sex”), then fair is fair: we should hold ALL accountable for the actions of any ONE. Most of all, however, you can forget any notion of privacy, and if you don’t think you’ll be blackmailed down the road, well you’re lucky if you aren’t. I was harassed and defamed so badly by many of these clipwhores (not this one) that I have to file suit and get a lawyer. Of course, they believe all the crap they read online until it’s too late not realizing that lawyers are setting them up to be sued because they know they will rush in to play hero and collect tens of thousands in fees.
These women don’t understand that humans are evolving the way wolves did into dogs. You can have 100 “wolves” as your subs but even ONE “dog” has more IQ than the 100 wolves combinwed, which is why we have 75 million dogs and only 30 wolves. The dogs are not tougher than the wolves, but smarter. These women who chase “wolf” money don’t realize what they’re missing out on because the books haven’t caught up to reality. They’re literally fighting yesterday’s war.
I have WAY too much to accomplish in this life to sweat the opinion of some stupid cam bitch who rips off the public she laughs at while doing so. The wives of truly rich men, like those on Wall Street, have class, and laugh at the cam skanks. Those men also don’t marry women who have been on the open market, unless they are just very flawed, desperate rich men. The women know this, and that’s part of why they hate “men.”
Finally, they say they’d NEVER date a customer? Great. Spend NO money and you have an eq1ual or better chance with them. Of course, if men don’t boycott them collectively, the market won’t crash and all men will pay too much (or just stop paying like I did years ago). If you tolerate a woman with clothing over 60 percent of her body, not realizing what an INSULT that is to you and to porn in general, they have no incentive to up the ante.
This woman is like someone who caught the internet bubble and thinks they know how to invest. The more women she educates to compete against her, the more the pie will be divided up. Either way, she’ll age like milk, like all women do, no decent man will ever love her, and men should treat ugly, old, and fat women the way women in their prime treat men.
Wonder if her camskank friends realize that when they threatened me they gave a level of PROBABLE CAUSE to law enforcement that basically turns their lives, and the lives of their customers, into an open book. If they get audited, so will anyone sending them large amounts of cash, gifts, etc. Just a matter of time at this point.
It’s sad they don’t value brains the way they do money, since a smart man can multiply their money beyond belief, but that’s what makes them stupid and rich. Finally, do you think the slugs they date really want them to become more successful to the point where they’ll dump the slug?
Wise up, skank.
You alright?
I think I am going to try to reply. I think a lot of guys who use BDSM are not dating. This is an outlet.
The women who offer these services are actually quite open about what they do because they are going after certain types of clients.
That brings me to the matter of consent. A lot of guys don’t know what they are doing. They have these unconscious drives, and get arouaed m aroused by the descriptions of services.
I do m. I feel the woman is going to know whether the customer is acting in his best interests or not. Some are ethical. Some are not.
Hearing your findom advice about taking advantage of the occasional white whale, I disagreed mm. Sorry old phone. Me. Ms. Lynch, I would probably consider you to be a predator. Someone who ‘smells the money.’ As my Domme said. She has actually checked four times when she thought I was spending too much.
I did financial once with domm someone who respect ed income limits. She still received a pretty good sum from me. I loved it because it was pure service without the kink. She herself as said that she does not understand the desire to financially ruin people’s.
So I am curious Ms. Lynch. In your off hours, away from work. Do you give back in any way? Charity, volunteer ing, activism?
It is really really an accomplishment to attain a six-figure income online, but there are many different roads to get there. For example every one raves about Maria at Brainoickings (letter after o).
Well LOL, since this is your blog , I’ll stop and say good night.
Perfect response.
He badly needs wallet raping.
Just sayin’
That’s a perfect response.
Thanks for your input, experience in any business/adult or otherwise is essential to be considered an expert.
You have that, thus you are an expert.
You are brave for putting up with nutball haters like the person with alot of ‘free’ time to spare.
Xxx Mistress C.
I’m interested in finding out more info about this lifestyle an becoming a Domm
Haha! That’s a much more diplomatic (and appropriate) way to say exactly what I was thinking.
jonny boi is just another weak misogynist.. Go find a Cuckoldress and some BBC make yourself useful instead of angry spend your time cleaning up a “cream pie” and not being a keyboard warrior ..
I am going to skip ragging on all the really blatant textbook idiocies this poor, tragic, hopeless, furious, ignorant, pencil dick, parody of himself, douchebag victim spouts– and just choose one single “point” in his big-boy tantrum to die laughing about….
Wolves evolving into dogs.
Wolves evolving into DOGS?
….because dogs are smarter???
1 dog has a higher IQ than 100 wolves combined?!?!?!
What is this guy smoking?
Can I get some of it?
….But on a serious note.
Where in the flying fuck does this guy get his information from?
Wolves did not evolve into dogs, (thank goodness), you fucking Cronenberg!
Clearly you haven’t spent any time either communing with wolves or studying them. If you had, you wouldn’t degrade your own reasoning faculties by claiming there’s any contest between the intellect of a hundred of the stoic, cunning and regal wolves and one drooling, tail chasing, poop eating dog. Also, among dogs there is such a broad spectrum of intelligence at play, among all the hundreds of various breeds, that you can only speak of I.Q.s in sweeping generalizations. Luckily, for the purposes of this post, volumes of highly detailed data matrixes are not required. Wolves numbering up to 100 can combine their I.Q.s and then divide them up again when they realize that 1-on-1 they are smarter than dogs. For this a sweeping generalization will more than suffice. The reason there are way more dogs than wolves alive these days is because people are breeding dogs to sell and own. Dogs are domesticated, subservient, submissive creatures with no dignity or shame in living only to please people. Wolves, like everything else in the wild, are dying off because they have next to no natural habitat left. And they aren’t interested in being subjugated and enslaved by people. They are way too smart for that.
I actually appreciate you laying that out.
People should read Darwin more.
He sounds insane.
Also, dogs and canines don’t really have IQs. Cant hold the pencil to take the test.
You are an asshole john smith! An asshole with no asshole and An asshole who is broke as fuck! Fuck off!
John, my poor mislead friend, you are deeply misunderstanding one very important part of all this. It’s call FinDom– financial domination. It is not a regular interaction between a man with a lot of money and a female who wants that money. **This is their kink, their fetish. They want to have a woman treat them like this and use them in this way.** My recommendation for you is to go look for a sugar-baby blog to write your manifesto on, because with all due respect (which, to be fair, is none, but I will respect you anyhow) if you’re pissed off about women using men for their money as part of the FinDom community, then you might as well call men who are into BDSM wifebeaters. Hopefully, you can understand the consent and mutual respect that goes into these Sub-Domme relationships despite your skewed perspective on women and the positions of power they hold over (happily) willing participants. In the mean time, maybe you should look up the definition of fetish/fantasy-fulfillment.
Oh, this is moderated. No biggie, can post it somewhere else.
I really enjoyed reading this blog post which is not always the case.
Its clever precise and covers the issue very well without being self serving.
I am definitely in the customer class and not ever likely to be a whale and hopefully never a time waster either though that’s for others to comment on, and I drop in and out of interacting with the Dommes I favour and at the moment I am just starting to spend money with Ceara (mainly on Clips) after a hiatus of about 6 – 9 months, One thing that I find happens and this may be specific to me as I reconnect I tend to start off slowly and then go crazier and crazier and buy more and more clips per day and read more and more tweets to devour all things Ceara till one day I just stop for a period of time but I always find my way back and I guess this is the whole point of the business plan is to have many customers and take the cream off the top when a whale appears
I think the point about gaining customers from the work who have put in previously via a clip or a picture that they stumble across is extremely valid and its how I came across Ceara about 7 – 8 years ago and would not have spent a cent on her without this and this is true for the other 3 or so Dommes I spend money with on a semi regular basis.
Thank You for the post and the enjoyment you have given me over the years
Regards
Cool, I just discovered this site highlights text in pink! Is that a feature you implemented?
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That John Smith dude is too angry to be taken seriously. That said, I will echo one of his comments. Just about every time I attempted to break off contact with a femdom/findom with whom I had been interacting frequently, there was the threat of blackmail. Th e blackmails threats came from high profile dommes including one who was regularly featured on the old Domme Dose site. In one case, with a certain Canadian Domme who shall remain nameless, there was literally non-consensual blackmail and I went to a lawyer. I always though that was sad and disgusting and the fact that it was the rule and not the exception made me think less of the ladies in this business. Important note: I never had the privilege to interact with Princess Ceara so this post in no way impunes her reputation.
@Sam That is just terrible!
I have literally NEVER ever heard of that!
That is deplorable behavior and I want to apologize on behalf of ALL good/honest Findoms out there. (we do exist, LOL)
This is awesome…. I just had someone contact me about Findom, and I sent them to your site… and you just happened the post this! hahah
xoxo
Monique- your long lost buddy
Your majesty, if your shoes and my parents fall into the river at the same time, I must first save your shoesIt
is strongly recommended that you come to China, China is no exaggeration to say that there are 10 men in the M and there are 2 do not understand this.
China is the only country that has not been conquered. Cheap dogs believe you will conquer China with your dung
Im coming to chine soon for this job.
我爱中国
I just wish i knew where to make a good website so I can promote myself and let al these tiny chinese man pay for mama s nails
Blah blah white whale blah blah!I just want to kiss and smell your beautiful stinky stockinged feet!
Then get out of my blog and go buy my videos, you worthless abortion.
iwantceara.com
Wow really, a findom. Hmm do they really exist I mean is this real. You sure they don’t want more than that. I haven’t seen one before so I kinda find it hard to believe. And if there is on out there.m I think you could be a sponsor to someone’s schooling which is more rewarding since karma is always right than to just give out money to some boohoos. Am just sayin. If you have a problem. With my comment why not hit me up on my email
Where do i sign up
For real!!! I’ve been researching this for months!
I wanted to comment from another perspective since this has affected me greatly. I was abused as a child and come from a family with many degrees of mental illness, OCD, depression, etc.
I have been addicted to this type of fetish and I believe that many men who indulge in this fetish have psychological issues like mine.
The women who take advantage of men in this “genre” – particularly the ones who encourage homewrecking, blackmail, financial ruin, etc. – are harming them and IMO, it is a hollow way to make a living.
Im interested in interviewing someone like you for my podcast. Email me if you’re interesting in sharing your story. contact@cearalynch.com
how was the interview ? id like to know, that was a good question he had about the possible similarities or the cause of his fetishes during childhood
and a continuation of my original comment is that in many cases, the “victims” of financial domination have psychological issues. So yes, while it may be financially lucrative to take advantage of their low self esteem and addictions, I see as in the same light as taking advantage of someone who is handicapped by knocking them onto the ground and taking their money.
well not if they asked for it right?? lol
It would be easy to take advantage of people with these fetishes. They could easily go into ruin much like a compulsive gambler. The Findom has the responsibility to not let it go that far. If they don’t, they are just a con artist.
Oh, so it’s only okay if we’re talking about men with money to burn, right? Hypocrite.
I sent u a Pvt messages if u like to shared it be my guest . No I keep this short please help me get better being a financial master so u can have me as a slave and income from me ok ur awesome contact me t I can explain more.i don’t make alot money but I’ll like to show I’m serious giving u $$$ or something to show my interest in u and u know how to used me with profile of me
In one blog this woman has changed my mind.
I was already depressed because of financial problems but i think this woman know what she s talking about.
I wish I knew where the hell to start already. The information was great tho!
Interesting topic interesting woman.
IMO this is a two way thing and only happens if the sub has gone looking for it in a particular way….. Pretty sure you can’t ‘accidentally’ type in Financial Dominiatrix into any keyboard – press ‘follow’ and then ‘donate’ all in a dream state…..
Doms don’t go into every single account on every single site looking fir these guys…. The guys go to THEM…
I thought this well written and informative
Very intrigued by this. I’ve been escorting on the side for a over a year now and have recently been proposition to be a findom. I’ve having minimal luck finding out details and personal experiences – particularly those regarding entire financial ruin. Obviously the idea of being given someone’s life savings feels amazing and turns me the fuck on, but not sure how I’d feel if he did self harm like he says he wants to.. Very very torn.
How do I get to because a domenatrix
Fuck the haters, This is amazing and well written. You were obviously not only an entrepreneur but incredibly intelligent. Get that money girl!
You are beautiful, and being VERY new to all this, I find you to be helpful as well. I’ve no interest on ruining any man in any way. I could gladly accept what they were going to give to someone anyway though and would actually be grateful for allowing me to satisfy my need to be mean and possibly be rewarded financially for doing so. The combination of these two things are what struck my interest. We all love a little extra $$$ but some of us have a dark side and a selfish hunger for striking out at someone to make them feel it. I’m so pleased to discover there is a place in this world for those of us who carry that inside to be free to be what we are.