It’s been a while since I felt inspired to write about a heated topic such as this, so here it goes.
I want to start out by saying I think it is important and healthy for humans to contemplate ethical boundaries. I wouldn’t be writing this if I didn’t. However, I also know its a slippery slope when we start deeming content that is for adults, by adults, and only involves normal, consenting adults to be unethical. It is a domino effect that will inevitably knock down the piece that metaphorically represents all the crazy fucked up and deranged things we do as femdoms if we allow frivolous censorship to have its way.
I read some uproar recently on twitter regarding a studio that featured a girl depicting sex acts with a stuffed animals along with other clips that had varying incest themes with such charming titles as, "mating with mommy" "fuck your father" "feeding baby man" etc. Here is a screen shot of the studio in question:
Apparently a few Dommes within the scene have been rather outraged by these clips. One Domme in particular has been especially vocal about her stance, proclaiming that "any type of child molestation is offensive," and promising to boycott kinkbomb until the material was removed. hmm ok.
I find it ironic that someone coming from a rather transgressive scene be to quick the jump into the role of thought police. You don’t have to like age play or furry subcultures, but if its not negatively affecting you or anyone else…. who cares? (Please note that being offended doesn’t count are being "negatively affected" as everything will always offend someone.)
Yeah, I get it, were talking about the idea of what’s considered the most despicable and unethical acts imaginable (raping children), along with probably whats considered one of the more disgusting acts imaginable (having sex with animals.) But let’s think about this for a minute, the key concept here is the idea. This chick is using a plush toy, not a dog. She is using her words, not children.
Which brings us to an interesting question brought up on twitter:
"really its ok to ‘pretend’ to fuck animals and children?"
Well, first of all, I think it’s rather misleading to put "pretend" in quotes. This is actual pretending. To fuck an animal or a child, an actual animal or child has to be involved, otherwise its not real and therefor pretend. But thats not the question here. Is it "really ok?" Yeah, I think so.
I know a lot of people are divided in believing whether or not pornography inspires sexual crimes or inhibits it, I personally lean toward the latter. I can’t say that I’ve ever read legitimate study on the matter (nor would I think any exist considering the ethical implications) but, really, let’s think about the nature of men; the ones we know, the ones we fuck, the ones we manipulate and use. How motivated are they to commit some aggressive, diabolical sex act immediately after they cum? How motivated are they to do anything for that matter? Not very.
My point being, clips like this serve as an outlet for men which could otherwise be replaced with something much more real. Which would you rather have; a man jerking off in his room alone to a clip involving consenting adults playing kinky-pretend? Or a man who exploits children and animals because he has nothing to jerk off to online?
It’s an unfortunate reality and true child/animal exploitation and incest do occur in this world. It’s my personal opinion that if youre going to take the time to be angry and vocal about something, why now be angry and vocal about that? Put your energy into changing the reality of this topic rather than wasting time on the fantasy.
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Anyway, that said, I’d like to shamelessly promote some clips along this same vein. Incest has been one of my favorite themes to dabble with lately and my lady Mistress T has fantastic and highly underrated furry clip that easily increased my admiration of her 10 fold. Go buy it now.
"Bad doggy" (search keyword: doggy)
"Sister’s date"
"Family pimping"
"Sister mommy double fuck"
"Kiss your sis"
Disclaimer: this entry was not meant to be a personal attack on anyone. I actually happen to rather like and respect the person who will most likely disagree with me here, and thats totally fine. This isn’t the first time we didnt see eye to eye and probably won’t be the last. Let’s all learn to separate people from issues because if we all had the same opinions we’d be super fucking lame.
Well said
Great piece Goddess. We can all learn a lot from this entry. I think you put a sensitive issue in perspective. I’m sure people will challenge every word of it, but I say You’re brilliant
Well said
Great piece Goddess. We can all learn a lot from this entry. I think you put a sensitive issue in perspective. I’m sure people will challenge every word of it, but I say You’re brilliant
100% right
i couldn’t agree more. this is all pretend, and it’s all protected speech. of course one is also free to say she is offended by it and boycott, but who is that hurting? i’m also a fan of the “offended domme” but i’m fairly certain she also engages in fantasies that are illegal if performed for real (i.e. blackmail) but are OK in clips because it’s just pretend.
100% right
i couldn’t agree more. this is all pretend, and it’s all protected speech. of course one is also free to say she is offended by it and boycott, but who is that hurting? i’m also a fan of the “offended domme” but i’m fairly certain she also engages in fantasies that are illegal if performed for real (i.e. blackmail) but are OK in clips because it’s just pretend.
well said
Your commentary is very persuasive. i am sure we all could benefit from Your thoughts anytime you care to share them.
k
well said
Your commentary is very persuasive. i am sure we all could benefit from Your thoughts anytime you care to share them.
k
I said it yesterday on twitter, people in this industry can be very hypocritical. Some would cringe at the thought of a girl spitting on a male’s face and calling him vile names before taking his money, deeming it all so immoral–and this is the most tame of content in our genre. There’s a difference between offensive and illegal. Every single clip on Kinkbomb or C4S is going to offend someone. But, as long as these people aren’t actually fucking a dog then who cares? Where do you draw the line in censorship? When it becomes illegal. It’s ridiculous, actually. Show them myriad clips of girls fucking teddy bears and its all good…throw in a stuffed dog and everyone has a hoopla.
I said it yesterday on twitter, people in this industry can be very hypocritical. Some would cringe at the thought of a girl spitting on a male’s face and calling him vile names before taking his money, deeming it all so immoral–and this is the most tame of content in our genre. There’s a difference between offensive and illegal. Every single clip on Kinkbomb or C4S is going to offend someone. But, as long as these people aren’t actually fucking a dog then who cares? Where do you draw the line in censorship? When it becomes illegal. It’s ridiculous, actually. Show them myriad clips of girls fucking teddy bears and its all good…throw in a stuffed dog and everyone has a hoopla.
the worlds grown way to soft and feminist, and you online dommes are some of the most moral in this regard. like you say pretend or fantasy is ok, it actually alleviates deranged passions, keeps men from raping innocent women for example. i say this is a reproach to it… why do we want to keep these things from happening? just like the way most assholes turn into inactive complacent wastes of life, sittn n front of a pc and a tv… so 2 do u partake in this modern decadenced & help turn ppl into complacent douches. this will all come to an end eventually and you are actually doing some good here, just like christianity, it has to be overcome. you know the men you associate with slowly hav 2 hav the fantasies grow more and more deranged to get off… its always been surprising to me how some1 gets off playing pretend??? wtf not me… i say the problem with the world is the lack of so called bad shit happening, ppl dnt kill pll like they use to and should… y should i care about another human, because it can feel pain?? if u see ppl for wat they actually r… a composition of qualities and characteristics, you can see why ppl should be killed and not allowed to breed. i dnt giv a fuck about no1 on here and could care less if u die 2moro, but i actually do care a lil bit that u actually dnt, haha fuck fantasy…take it 2 real life bitches
Awesome.
the worlds grown way to soft and feminist, and you online dommes are some of the most moral in this regard. like you say pretend or fantasy is ok, it actually alleviates deranged passions, keeps men from raping innocent women for example. i say this is a reproach to it… why do we want to keep these things from happening? just like the way most assholes turn into inactive complacent wastes of life, sittn n front of a pc and a tv… so 2 do u partake in this modern decadenced & help turn ppl into complacent douches. this will all come to an end eventually and you are actually doing some good here, just like christianity, it has to be overcome. you know the men you associate with slowly hav 2 hav the fantasies grow more and more deranged to get off… its always been surprising to me how some1 gets off playing pretend??? wtf not me… i say the problem with the world is the lack of so called bad shit happening, ppl dnt kill pll like they use to and should… y should i care about another human, because it can feel pain?? if u see ppl for wat they actually r… a composition of qualities and characteristics, you can see why ppl should be killed and not allowed to breed. i dnt giv a fuck about no1 on here and could care less if u die 2moro, but i actually do care a lil bit that u actually dnt, haha fuck fantasy…take it 2 real life bitches
Awesome.
dnt misunderstand, i think most off these miserable life dening fucks should b killed… u included, for facilitating such weaker types and decadent behavior. being the most moral is not a good thing… ur womanly values of comfort, altruism, safety and money worship will come to an end…. its funny how all you all confuse men with the feminists u run into on here, it wud b like me saying all women are short ugly resentful dikesw
dnt misunderstand, i think most off these miserable life dening fucks should b killed… u included, for facilitating such weaker types and decadent behavior. being the most moral is not a good thing… ur womanly values of comfort, altruism, safety and money worship will come to an end…. its funny how all you all confuse men with the feminists u run into on here, it wud b like me saying all women are short ugly resentful dikesw
i really do think you are awesome btw, very beautiful… and despite popular opinion beauty isnt merely superficial, its only human and actually does represent something; i wudnt visit ur site if I thot otherwise… you are smart, cool and should be exalted over the others, the gulf of separation between you and the other princess is equal to the seperation between the ancient greek nobility and the slave… you should b conceited. Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall, words made famous by the slave and a confusing of pride with arrogance
i really do think you are awesome btw, very beautiful… and despite popular opinion beauty isnt merely superficial, its only human and actually does represent something; i wudnt visit ur site if I thot otherwise… you are smart, cool and should be exalted over the others, the gulf of separation between you and the other princess is equal to the seperation between the ancient greek nobility and the slave… you should b conceited. Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall, words made famous by the slave and a confusing of pride with arrogance
Your comments are spot-on.
I think we all have kinks and fetishes that others would find weird. I, for one, find age play completely beyond my comprehension (What is with those people, ha?) but no doubt some veteran age-players find my desire to submit to a woman beyond their comprehension.
Part of being human is fantasising, telling stories to ourselves about who we are or wish we were.
Sometimes it’s daydreaming about what you’d do if you won the lottery, sometimes it’s imagining punching your boss and sometimes it’s confessing to yourself that you find the idea of crossing one of the ultimate taboos and being seduced by a family member hot.
There is absolutely no harm in any of this, indeed it’s probably useful in helping us make sense of the world around us and our place in it, working out for ourselves what we prioritise, what we want, what we need and what we’re looking for.
And as long as you don’t punch your boss or sleep with a family member, you can enjoy the fantasy and perhaps come to realise you should really find a new job or that you really wanna indulge in some family-role-play with your partner.
Where I do disagree with you Ceara is that jerking off to clips can serve as a release for tensions that would otherwise play out in dangerous and illegal ways in the real world. (Such as rape, incest, bestiality etc.)
People who engage in these horrific acts for real have serious issues – perhaps anger, perhaps childhood trauma, perhaps sociopaths whose capacity for empathy was always going to end badly.
I can’t know what drives them but I don’t believe that had anyone engaging in these criminal acts simply masturbated a little more in front of their computer or discovered clips4sale that they would have been “cured”.
Speaking from anecdotal experience, I was fantasising about being controlled by a woman long before I realised there was anyone else who felt the same.
What the internet did was allow me to find a sort of community that understood and welcomed my kink.
My point is that, if the internet somehow didn’t exist, I don’t believe I’d have been throwing myself at the feet of a passing stranger and demanding that she spit on me, I’d have been living the fantasies out in my head and that would have been fine.
Not as much fun by a long way but it would have been fine.
So let the makers of the videos create whatever content they wish and let the consumers fantasise and enjoy those videos and leave the real world crimes where they belong.
Anonymous Irish Guy
P.S. Your comment on the use of the quotation marks around the word pretend was so insightful into the ways people construct their arguments, I laughed out loud.
Your comments are spot-on.
I think we all have kinks and fetishes that others would find weird. I, for one, find age play completely beyond my comprehension (What is with those people, ha?) but no doubt some veteran age-players find my desire to submit to a woman beyond their comprehension.
Part of being human is fantasising, telling stories to ourselves about who we are or wish we were.
Sometimes it’s daydreaming about what you’d do if you won the lottery, sometimes it’s imagining punching your boss and sometimes it’s confessing to yourself that you find the idea of crossing one of the ultimate taboos and being seduced by a family member hot.
There is absolutely no harm in any of this, indeed it’s probably useful in helping us make sense of the world around us and our place in it, working out for ourselves what we prioritise, what we want, what we need and what we’re looking for.
And as long as you don’t punch your boss or sleep with a family member, you can enjoy the fantasy and perhaps come to realise you should really find a new job or that you really wanna indulge in some family-role-play with your partner.
Where I do disagree with you Ceara is that jerking off to clips can serve as a release for tensions that would otherwise play out in dangerous and illegal ways in the real world. (Such as rape, incest, bestiality etc.)
People who engage in these horrific acts for real have serious issues – perhaps anger, perhaps childhood trauma, perhaps sociopaths whose capacity for empathy was always going to end badly.
I can’t know what drives them but I don’t believe that had anyone engaging in these criminal acts simply masturbated a little more in front of their computer or discovered clips4sale that they would have been “cured”.
Speaking from anecdotal experience, I was fantasising about being controlled by a woman long before I realised there was anyone else who felt the same.
What the internet did was allow me to find a sort of community that understood and welcomed my kink.
My point is that, if the internet somehow didn’t exist, I don’t believe I’d have been throwing myself at the feet of a passing stranger and demanding that she spit on me, I’d have been living the fantasies out in my head and that would have been fine.
Not as much fun by a long way but it would have been fine.
So let the makers of the videos create whatever content they wish and let the consumers fantasise and enjoy those videos and leave the real world crimes where they belong.
Anonymous Irish Guy
P.S. Your comment on the use of the quotation marks around the word pretend was so insightful into the ways people construct their arguments, I laughed out loud.
Thanks for the disclaimer girl 🙂
Saw this on miss t’s twitter….I was totally upset about it and I actually stuck with me for a few days before emailing kinkbomb and apologizing. I honestly have never saw anythng of that nature… Never so when I saw that I flipped out. I grew up in a home where kids were in and out of my house with situations involving child molestation and horrible situations I didn’t even really think to much into it at all and how much of a fetish this was for people. All i could think about really is the animated gif i saw… My upbringing made me instantly disgusted but after an email kinkbomb had sent me… I really had a chance to think about it. It’s someone else’s kink. I still totally hate that I saw that and may be scarred for life lol but I’ll be good. ya I flipped out and was offended lol that shit was shocking to me! Trust me that was the realest “to each his own” lesson I was ever taught and another reality check for me.
Tierra
Thanks for the disclaimer girl 🙂
Saw this on miss t’s twitter….I was totally upset about it and I actually stuck with me for a few days before emailing kinkbomb and apologizing. I honestly have never saw anythng of that nature… Never so when I saw that I flipped out. I grew up in a home where kids were in and out of my house with situations involving child molestation and horrible situations I didn’t even really think to much into it at all and how much of a fetish this was for people. All i could think about really is the animated gif i saw… My upbringing made me instantly disgusted but after an email kinkbomb had sent me… I really had a chance to think about it. It’s someone else’s kink. I still totally hate that I saw that and may be scarred for life lol but I’ll be good. ya I flipped out and was offended lol that shit was shocking to me! Trust me that was the realest “to each his own” lesson I was ever taught and another reality check for me.
Tierra
I have to say it was the clip of the girl and the doll that got me I don’t care too much about the other and barely mentioned the dog clip I’ve seen stuff like that before, and knew people did that but definitely not the child one….
I have to say it was the clip of the girl and the doll that got me I don’t care too much about the other and barely mentioned the dog clip I’ve seen stuff like that before, and knew people did that but definitely not the child one….
WTF? No link to the “offensive” clip but instead links to “promote” your own clips?
Of course. This surprises you?
No. What surprises me is your fan-shared insight HERE.
PCL,
You Obviously are a genius, as well as a really fine young woman.
Showing me the blueprints of a self-constructed jointly built trap is really generous. It has not allowed me to escape just yet. I know it is not from your clutches as this is ‘free” ENTRANCE RAMP to a compelling cluster of PCL Worship sites, They have collected near all
of my attention and 8% of my spending loot. I have squandered a great home and a great job and a easy to fool myself relationship with a young beautiful brainiac artist.
Spring is on the way and I have Faith it brings Flowers of all sorts.
May I be smart enough to offer them all to you. The Princess
Queen of All Creation.
WTF? No link to the “offensive” clip but instead links to “promote” your own clips?
Of course. This surprises you?
No. What surprises me is your fan-shared insight HERE.
PCL,
You Obviously are a genius, as well as a really fine young woman.
Showing me the blueprints of a self-constructed jointly built trap is really generous. It has not allowed me to escape just yet. I know it is not from your clutches as this is ‘free” ENTRANCE RAMP to a compelling cluster of PCL Worship sites, They have collected near all
of my attention and 8% of my spending loot. I have squandered a great home and a great job and a easy to fool myself relationship with a young beautiful brainiac artist.
Spring is on the way and I have Faith it brings Flowers of all sorts.
May I be smart enough to offer them all to you. The Princess
Queen of All Creation.