adrianna: I would appreciate if you stop telling your submissives to lie to other submissives saying that I have someone operate my Instant messenger. That is NOT true and what your doing is slander and believe me I will NOT tolerate it. I work for a law firm and if I have to take action I will.
Ceara Lynch: what?
adrianna: 2 boys have contacted me tonight saying that you’re having your submissives spread this rumor. I have written documentation from 2 individuals that I will use if I have to. You need to cease and desist immediately.
Ceara Lynch: haha, what?? I have no idea who you are
adrianna: I’m just letting you know what I have been told.
Ceara Lynch: no youre not
Ceara Lynch: youre telling me to stop doing something I’m not doing and threatening legal action (hilarious)
adrianna: they have given your name
adrianna: I work for a law firm, I find nothing funny about slanderous stuff and submissives giving me your instant messenger
Ceara Lynch: Oh god, please take legal action
Ceara Lynch: seriously, waste a lot time
Ceara Lynch: that would be awesome
Ceara Lynch: tell me how hard they laugh
adrianna: You really need to grow up. I would hope if someone came to you with this information you would try to get to the bottom of it.
Ceara Lynch: no, I wouldnt, who fucking cares?
Ceara Lynch: people talk shit about me constantly, thats life
Ceara Lynch: but seriously, I have no flipping clue who you are
Ceara Lynch: sounds like youre being played, I wouldnt fall for it
adrianna: Yes I agree. I deal with it everyday and thats why I take action. Not taking action lets it perpetuate into something bigger and people start to believe it. Think big picture
Ceara Lynch: I think you have that backwards.
adrianna: Here is the yahoo ID of one of the individuals saying you said this—-> se2*******
Ceara Lynch: yeah i know who that is, want me to tell you about him?
adrianna: Its not one of my boys
adrianna: it was a friend who told me
Ceara Lynch: se2******* is your friend?
adrianna: no
adrianna: A friend who is a submissive but does NOT serve me talks to him and another sub and apparently they gave these statements about you
Ceara Lynch: ok, so you heard from a guy, who heard from a guy, that Im spreading rumors about you?
adrianna: My friend I just refered to said this is a rumor going around and he keeps getting the same story that you’re telling boys to say this. If you’re not fine. But at least you are now aware of this
Ceara Lynch: ok, sweety, when you get third hand information like this, you should really try a different approach that to start immediately threatening legal action because theres a big chance theres no validity behind the rumors
Ceara Lynch: se2******* is a total snake. The guy has contacted numerous subs of mine trying to get free clips. he would ask to trade, threaten them, pretend to be my boyfriend, many different tactics.
adrianna: First off so not call me sweetie, second off go fuck yourself and third off stop using domination as a meal ticket. Go back to school and get an education! Have a great night SWEETIE
Ceara Lynch: okay sugartits, you have a nice night too. Im going to post this on my blog, don’t sue me. haha.

This is in response to: http://womenrule6699.livejournal.com/288924.html 

So, you want to do something about producer’s ability to recognize a market, hire people to make a product and then sell it at whatever price they want? That’s fighting capitalism.

You want to change a man’s tendency to favor attractive women over less attractive women? That’s fighting the power of beauty.

You insist on us all acting in a loving sisterhood that supports one another despite what enormously stupid and aggravating women might be a part of it said sisterhood? That’s fighting human nature.

Good luck.

I’m not saying any of those are unworthy battles to take on. Really, I’m not totally convinced capitalism is the best system in the world, but it’s certainly working for me. If given the choice, I’d like the world to be on a more even playing field in terms of looks and diminish this unhealthy obsession we all have with beauty, but I also happen to be beautiful as well as profit from the beauty of others, so I guess that’s working for me too. Finally, it would be nice if we all had a basic level of respect for one another and didn’t lash out aggressively for no reason, but then again, I’ve learned to enjoy that kind of drama. So I suppose I have that working for me too.

This, I argue, is the true definition of dominance; recognizing the things you cannot change and manipulating what you can to make it work for you. I believe this is the truest form of control anyone could have.

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On another note, I think I may be suffering from some kind of spontaneous amnesia. I’ve been a humiliatrix since 2006, which is long enough to have experienced the “golden age” of online domming as described by my fellow peers. They speak of an abundance of good, loyal, respectful slaves like native Americans talk about the many moons ago when salmon in the rivers were so plentiful you could walk across the water on their backs. What a glorious and majestic time this was, right? Uh right.

There has always been asshole subs. Always. Before online domming, before the internet, probably even before the term BDSM was invented. “Wanker” was one of the first niche-specific words I learned. Lyne once told me, before I started my website and long before anyone started a clip store, that she was getting burnt out of all these rude assholes and wasting her time. Why do people suddenly think this is a new phenomenon caused by anything other than the personal responsibility of the sub themselves?

My first year testing the waters of online domming I wondered what I was doing wrong. I was making pretty good money, but nowhere near what some other Dommes posted about. I realized after a while that I just didn’t understand all the sneaky little games subs would pull on me to waste my time. Domming 101 is a lot of trial and error learning about all the many ways subs will try and fuck with you. If you’re observant enough, these strategies become unbelievably predictable and there aren’t very many of them.

So what about this ongoing rumor that points fingers at various sources claiming them responsible for the change in this scene? My request? Prove it. Seriously, who has a single ounce of credible evidence that shows a direct cause and effect link to someone or something to this supposed change? As someone who was "there" and should just "know" what you’re talking about, I simply do not see it. So unless you’ve done a scientific study, which accounts for all extraneous variables, you’re just pulling ideas out of your ass. Correlation is not causation. Our minds are wired to draw conclusions based on the quickest, most obviously apparent explanation. It does this for convenience, not accuracy. 

“Why is it that women who are supposed to be in control are getting into internet fist-fights over things like BOYS, who is real and who isn’t, and various other reasons?”

Not everyone is going to get along all of the time. When I first started on livejournal Angel and I got into a pretty big tiff. A sub I had been chatting with sent me a video of himself dancing around like a sissy. I posted on my blog and out of no where, this domme I’d never heard of started attacking me since apparently it was her video she recorded of him on cam. Much to the excitement of our audience, we had a lovely eye gouging, hair pulling cat fight which eventually ended when the dust settled and we saw that both of us were still standing. Neither of us were going to take each others bullshit and that created a mutual respect. We’ve been cool ever sense.

Is this scene catty? Rude? Insecure at times? Yes absolutely. But guess what? Were all adults. Not only that, were supposedly dominant women. If you can’t handle the inevitable drama and flame war that comes with any loosely controlled community on the internet, I’d argue you’re not quite the dominant or capable person you think you are. I identify fully as a feminist, but not to the feminist stereotype. I don’t believe in an unconditionally loving sisterhood. I will respect a woman as a woman, but that doesn’t mean I have to like her. That doesn’t mean she’s exempt from every ignorant notion that comes out of her mouth. And it certainly doesn’t mean she doesn’t have to sink or swim like the rest of us in this industry.

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All that said, I want share with you my personal relationship with this scene. I look at it in 3 different ways; as a lifestyle, as an interest, and as a business. Personally my relationship to it falls into the latter two. It is an interest to me because bizarre fetishes and sexuality in general have always fascinated me. It is a business to me in the sense that I saw an opportunity on the table and seized it. I saw a demand and created the supply. It is not a lifestyle to me, however, as I don’t really think I’m a princess, goddess, or do I think all men should immediately bow to my feet. To be honest, I think that’s freakin loony outside of the fetish context. Which again comes back to why it is simply an interest to me: I like crazy shit.

Here’s what I think more people need to understand: the fetish scene is huge, the lifestyle is not. Most men care about women meeting some vague, subjective standard of what makes a “real domme” about as much as they care about whether your new gucci bag is authentic. All they really want to know is if you can act convincingly dominant for the 5-10 minutes it takes to scratch their itch and then go about their day. If you truly believe these models are taking all the good subs, turning them into spoiled brats and interfering with your opportunity to establish and explore real D/s relationships, here’s my advice to you:

Don’t charge for it.

That’s it. Voila. I guarantee you the moment you start exploring your true and passionate identity without charging for it, a plethora of submissive men will be begging at your doorstep (some assholes, some not.) Women are really lucky in the sense that there are far less of us who truly embrace the kink scene for what it is. For every kinky girl, there are 100 kinky guys competing to play. We have our pick of the litter. But guess what? It doesn’t entitle you to money as well. You’re going to actually have to work for that. And yes, even pay attention to what men want. But that’s okay, because you’re interested in true submissives anyway, not these pesky fetishists. Right?

“Great, we surely welcome them to explore this side of themselves and really learn how it feels to be the woman in charge. What percentage of models being hired is truly dominant though?”

I don’t know. What percentage of women who stumble across this community are truly dominant? Why does one deserve more acceptance than the other? If we can’t collectively agree on what makes someone “truly dominant” how are we suppose to agree on who possesses such a trait?

I’ll tell you what I think would be true female dominance in this scene: if women worked in this industry beyond their own shortsighted single-domme studios. This is why Monique and I created Team Tease. We know that us as individuals only have so much longevity in front of the camera, so we’re setting ourselves up to work behind it. And why not? Why leave that opportunity on the table for another man to inevitably pick up himself, as oppose to taking the opportunity create a female positive environment that future models can feel comfortable working in? There is not enough of that in the domme scene, the sex industry, the modeling industry, or in the world in general, in my opinion.

Which is why I think it’s kind of sad how desperately some of us cling to the nostalgia of “our little world” where women supposedly controlled everything. We don’t have to make up virtual worlds, I propose making a difference in the real world. Find a male dominated industry you’re interested in and penetrate it with your big fat figurative strap on. Show that it’s possible and pave the way for other women until we can loosen our grip on the philosophy behind this shaky virtual world most people have never heard of or care about.

Why are there sites like MDS run by a man? Why does a man control the Domme Scene blog and has a tendency to embraceone Domme over another? Because a man decided he wanted to do it, and did. And you can too. Really, it isn’t that hard. Just DO it. Be the change you want to see, and I promise you, it will have a far bigger impact than just bitching about the change you want to see.

Happy thanksgiving everyone.

I just released the first of my seven part chastity series entitled, "The Bitch Next Door." It will be an ongoing blackmail and orgasm denial challenge for you stroke junkies eager to learn some discipline. Imagine having me, the cruelest bitch you know, as your next door neighbor growing up. A certain chain of events has made it so that tiny cock of yours is locked into chastity and I hold the key, making you my slave for the next 30 days. During this time I am going to test your endurance. You will teased, humiliated, and brain washed any way I see fit. You have no choice but to obey me or else key goes bye bye and mommy will know all about the daily jerk off habits I’ve been recording. 

A new clip will be released every other day marking a new day of torment. For best results, lock your little worm away for the next month and suffer through a clip or two every week, watch as your balls turn a disturbing shade of blue. 

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Sissy assignment
Custom clip request: "This is a very specific assignment. It might be to buy a particular type sissy outfit – being as specific as possible, to include all clothes, and make up, and then once I have bought it, to dress for you, and then to listen as you humiliate me for being such a sissy faggot. I adore the kind of assignment that requires me to be in public, but in secret. So wearing full lingerie under me clothes to buy the outfit, or to be dressed in lingerie, then go to a toilet in a mall, put a butt plug in and then walk home. Anything humiliating and degrading, and as specific as possible. Perhaps you could do a series of assignments – I would buy them all! (on a twist on number 1 above, it might be to take some food with me to a park, or other relatively public, although secluded spot, and fill my pants with food there, before returning to eat it…) "

Humiliation assignment for mess slobs
Custom clips request: I have always had a messy fetish – mainly regarding food in my knickers. I would like you to be dressed in a sexy outfit, and looking down at the camera, laugh at my ridiculous, nasty fetish, and then proceed to order me to dress in some large panties, several pairs of tights, a bra and a girlie top. Then spend the main part of the clip instructing me to buy lots of very specific food stuff. Eggs are great, bananas and food are also pretty good. Please give me a shopping list,then make me pause the clip and go to buy it all. On my return, you delight in making me stuff the slimey food into the front and back of my panties, and if you like my bra too. Once it is all in, you will order me to wear it for at least a few hours (although you decide!), again, with the clip paused. Finally, on returning to the clip, you would be laughing at my ridiculously messy state, and make me empty the food from my pants/bra onto the desk in front of my screen. Then laughing, order me to eat it all up like a good doggy.

Drink it down
What can I say? My best ideas come when Im sititng on the pot. The lesbo was just outside my door doing my chores when I decided to torture her. She will do ANYTHING for me – including drinking my own waste! What kind of fucked up bitch is this?? Don’t get me wrong, she can’t stand the taste of my hot, thick, musky nectar, but she also can’t say no to me. Watch as I talk her into sucking down each and every nasty drop.

Cuckold jerk off instruction
My boyfriend is coming over and you’re still lingering around? Just because we’re married doesnt mean you can follow me around like a puppy . You know the drill, hide in the closet, and try to keep the whimpering down. I know you can’t resist how hot I look in my outfits I wear for him. You picked them out, after all. Since we have a few minutes let me make sure you still remember how to stroke it properly. I can’t stand a sloppy form. A girl can’t control her husband if she can’t control his dick, so let’s practice before my date.

Jerk it, loser.
Ah, the quintessential foot clip of a humiliatrix. Is there nothing you bitches eat up more? Only 5 minutes long because well, lets be honest, you probably won’t last half that. So go ahead, loser, stare at the bottoms of my feet as I rip you to shreds. You know it’s only going to leave you begging for more

Harry Hannah
Custom clip request "I want to be humiliated, and felt useless as a man. I have a date in about two hours and rather then making a game plan about getting laid, or buying her flowers, I am busy dressing up just imaginging if I could be the girl, and how it would be like to be on the bottom and have my pussy penettarated by a strapon. I actually am more excited about the fact that I ordered a dress, heels, and a baby doll nightie, then trying get laid for the date. I am still trying on different pair of panties. Please dont show the pictures on the video, but make reference to them and humiliate me, especially the one where I am using the vibrator. This was my first time, but I actually poped my cherry and actually reached orgasm through the vibrator. If you were my friend and discovered pictuers of me like this what would you do to me. I dream about getting publicly humiliated, forced to shave my legs, wear bright red lipstick. I am afraid of how women will react seeing me in the ladies room, and remind me that women sit down and . I want to be exposed, and taken out to public and be the submissive in a relationship, who wears the panties and is on the bottom. I want a woman to take over me, I am okay even being cuckold. In the video, please use my real name Harry and feel free to give me a girly name.I am 24 years old and remind me that a normal man does not do such a thing. And please comment on the pictures. Please encourage me to give up being a man, and just start wearing skirts, dresses, shaving me legs. Give me a suggestion on how I could tell one of my female friends."

Family fun
Kinda funny how life works out sometimes. One moment you’re innocently playing monopoly with your sister, the next you’re trying to contain your raging boner around her. She decides today to vent about her day at school; nonchalantly flaunting her gorgeous bare feet as she whines about how sore they are from walking class to class. Your nervous fidgeting grabs her attention and she immediately notices the tent you’re pitching. She’s always had the upper hand and humiliated you your entire life, why would today be any different? Before you know it she’s talked you into pulling out your cock and stroking it to her feet. Your own fIesh and bIood. How FUCKED are you? She tears you apart for being so pathetic and desperate as you pound it frantically to her manic laughter. Teasing you to climax, an evil smile is plastered on her face the entire time. As if jerking off in front of your sister wasn’t humiliating enough, you realize you are only going to want this more and more. Somehow, sis knows too, and hands her homework over to you. If you want to have this kind of family fun again, you better get to work

Feet for sex
Im going to demolish your sex life. Not like you had much of one to begin with — but it’s time to replace it something much more appropriate; my feet. That’s right bitch, welcome to your sexual replacement. Every time you find yourself wanting sex or given an opportunity for sex, you will excuse yourself, goto your office, lock the door, and watch this clip instead. Enjoy

For Monica
Custom clip: "You talk only to Monica, my domme, and not to me. In fact I will not watch the clip until after I have had my session with Monica, so I don’t know what you have put in it. So basically you just give Monica suggestions for what she can do with me for that session. It usually lasts about an hour and she’s down with pretty much every dirty and degrading act. In past sessions she’s used strapons on me, she’s forced me to wear womens lingerie and made me eat cum from condoms of her other customers. You can make her do any of those things or anything you come up with yourself. Personally I’m into sissification, anal play, verbal humiliation, cum eating instruction, forced bi and public humiliation. I’m usually not much for pain, but I would endure it if you and Monica wanted to inflict it on me. Also, one of the fantasies that arouses and scares me the most is if Monica dresses me in my pink sissy baby dress and then steals my real man clothes, so I have to walk home in my dress. Really, I’d do anything you came up with and Monica would just think it’s fun if you came up with something that was meaner than something she’d think of, so in this clip you’d have an obedient slave and a hot pro-domme at your fingertips, doing whatever you

Titty jerk off instruction
It’s hilarious how normal, grown men quickly turn into drooling jerking zombies the moment my gorgeous cleavage is displayed. Go ahead bitch, enjoy yourself. I’ll even encourage you along the way. With each clip you are only becoming more and more conditioned into being my little stroking pay pet. 10 minutes of my time equals thousands in your wallet. You know you love it

I am your world
Ceareons rejoice! Your cult leader is back with a very important message. Want to be reminded of your true savior? Want to know how to best worship and praise me? It’s all in here. I will take your sad pathetic life and show you your true potential as my wanking, paying worshipper. Most gods require you to just "trust" in their existence. Why take that naive leap of faith when you can see your true goddess in the flesh? I am real, baby. And I am your world

"i just wanted to let you know about a game that i played tonight and that resulted in me having to buy a # of your clips. i voted on each of the toplists that you want your slaves to vote on, and each time your banner was in the top 10 of the toplist, you would get a point. each time your banner was not in the top 10, you would lose a point. and after i voted for you on all the top lists, i had to buy one clip for each point you ended up with. i thought this might be a good way to encourage your slaves to vote for you and buy your clips." — some loser

I gotta give credit where credit is due. Sometimes you boys do come up with some fantastic ideas. Why didn’t I think of this? Play the voting game. And dont let your lack of funds to stop you from voting; this also makes a fantastic drinking game. Which I’m sure will result in you caving and going on a spending spree anyway. So let’s honor our veterans tonight by clicking and voting like the little mindless zombies you are.

Here’s a little inspiration to start you out with:

CLICK AND VOTE:

1.GODDESS WORSHIP

2.MONEY MISTRESS

3.MONTRESS

4.BITCHFEMDOM

5.EVIL FEMALE

32. BLACKMAIL GODDESSES

How many points did you get loser? Go spend them here.

Sissy Sandra has been on my nuts lately, totally hooked on buying custom clips of humiliation assignments. The most recent one is a little different; instead of talking to him, I’m speaking directly to his r/t mistress, Monica, giving her specific instructions for their little hotel get away. The slut even refrained from watching it himself until afterward. And he came back with pictures! What a nice surprise. I swear you fags don’t document your degradation for me often enough. You can learn a thing or two from this winner:

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Good to be back in the swing of things.

The night I got back from vegas I told myself I’d study for my mid term before hitting the sack. Instead, I ended up going straight to bed and setting my alarm for 6am, where I woke up just in time to see the sun rise, read thirty pages, then Aced my exam on stomach of coffee and anxiety.

I’ve since caught up on sleep. Been keeping up with school and just finished editing the batch of Miss Tiffany clips for team tease that I shot over the weekend. Safe to say Im back to life again. And it’s funny to return to that lovely routine where you stroke and I exploit. You all are like eager little puppies I left at home, caught in the devastating assumption that I’m never coming back. Only to slam me exponentially with tributes and praise when I finally log back into YIM. I’d tell you to get a fucking life, but clearly I am just that. And I can’t argue against that.

Take this loser for example; 

"Dear Princess Ceara the highest and most divine,

Best Wishes, yours with full respect and admiration, Andy"